As the plot thickens, the harder challenges (males/situations) that should be noted for future discussion, reference, or discussed in more detail, will appear here:
THE FRIEND He’s a good friend. When we met through a mutual friend we clicked right away. I never looked at him as more but we did always have fun together. He was definitely one of my favorite people to be around. Our friendship always seemed so innocent and worked pretty well up until the end of February of A Single Year when it seemed more feelings were coming out. Currently, I’m figure out these feelings and what they mean and how to handle them. But for the time being I’m going to keep going as is and try not to give into temptation.
JERSEY: I met Jersey not too long after moving to New York. There was an immediate attraction but our relationship stayed friendly for the most part. When things did seem to venture into more serious territory there was always some sort of force pulling us back apart. Until one day, we both said too much and too angry and that was it. That was it for a while. Couple of months later, conversations began to pick back up and we were finally being cordial but cautious about venturing back down the road that ruined our friendship. It was during that time that I came up with A Single Year. Weeks later, his presence became stronger and we made amends about things that happened in the past. I would be lying if I said I didn’t think twice about this year when I saw things were going good between us. But I couldn’t give up this decision because of him, because of any man. As a woman, I just couldn’t. I think he’ll always see it as me not choosing him. We stayed friends after the year stared. To me it was enough – if I couldn’t have all of him, half was good enough. To him, it wasn’t. He told me on February 10th, that he couldn’t do this anymore. I wanted to punch him, but all I could say was ‘ok.’ I cheated on ASY with Jersey 2 months after he ‘broke up with me.’ It was just a kiss, but it definitely put a wrench in the whole plan.
A Single Year 